Secret #3: Surround Yourself With the Right Support
Secret #4: Plan for the Worst and Expect the Best
THESE FINAL TWO SECRETS HAVE BEEN MY SECRET SAUCE TO BECOMING THE WOMAN I AM.
I never realized how much my social circle could really affect my thinking and future. I was sharing my dreams with people who had given up on theirs and I was trying so hard to explain myself to people who just might never get it.
The hardest part is when these are some of the closest people to you.
But I made the decision to be in control of my own life and make the decision to not let their opinions or judgements hold me back. Because at the end of the day, nobody is responsible for my happiness except ME!
The longer I put my life on hold for other people, the more miserable & regretful I became.
Being pregnant with my second babe under one year, I let my anxiety and worry get the best of me. BUT THEN I REALIZED HOW SAD AND PATHETIC I WAS BEING. I didn't want them growing up believing that they couldn't make their life as amazing as they wanted it to be. That's when I made the investment in myself and hired a coach. The support, commitment and direction I received helped me take MASSIVE action to change my life. I was able to take strides towards planning for the worst and I've never expected less than the best for myself.
Can you imagine what it'd be like if you no longer felt afraid to take action? What it would be like if you didn't give a crap about what other people thought? If you could easily overcome your anxiety anytime it pops up and tries to bring you back to your comfort zone?
LIKE REALLY imagine it. How would you feel? How would things be different in your life? What amazing things would you be doing?
Maybe you're travelling the world visiting Pinterest worthy destinations. Maybe you're working in a career you love or starting a business you're mega passionate about. Maybe you're surrounded by a flock of fly #bossbabes that support you and lift you up. Maybe you've attracted a man that loves & respects the hell out of you.